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What to expect at this ageMost 5 year olds approach the material world with basic instincts: greed and a simple brand of justice. They like pretty objects and interesting toys, and they want them for themselves. And a sensitive 5 year old may find herself struggling with the first feelings of shame when her friends tease her because she’s still using her old preschool backpack in kindergarten.
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I keep my kids away from advertising as much as possible. That means ZERO TV because I don’t want them to see commercials (but they do sometimes get to watch videos). I don’t buy them brand name toys or clothes. When my son had a Thomas train that we’d found abandoned in our backyard, we just called it "the blue train" and didn’t brand him. Buying generic things mean my kids have one less thing to know about and therefore to beg me to buy. Also,
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